It shouldn’t Hurt

“If you can’t be honest to your best friends and family about how he’s actually treating you, he’s not treating you right.” —thevelveteenrabid I felt like I would look like a failure and be a laughing stock if the relationship failed. I put the best possible image on all forms of social media. After constantly […]

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“Don’t take advice form people you don’t want to be.”

“Don’t take advice form people you don’t want to be.” Seeing this quote spoke volumes in my life. Why was I allowing people constantly criticize my life and try to steer me in all different directions. But is it the right direction? Or is it just the direction they see as “right?” And is that […]

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Be Beautiful, Be You

In life a hard pill everyone needs to learn how to swallow is there is always going to be someone better than you or smarter than you or prettier than you or more fit than you. I was given this truth by my roommate who learned it from her father. There’s this beautiful realization that […]

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Traumas

Traumas are very real and very powerful. The imprint traumatic experiences leave on a person’s life will vary and is unique. Different people process different negative or tragic events that will occur to them throughout their life at different speeds and in varying degrees of intensity. You, and you alone, internally are the healer and […]

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The Start of Establishing and Enforcing Boundaries

I’ve always been like people’s stepping stool or doormat. I’m too nice so people think “wow it’d be so easy to just take advantage of her.” Instead of appreciating my kindness they want to take it a step farther and just try to manipulate me. I’ve had so many people that I just allowed to […]

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My story: why/ how I lost my virginity

Video transcript: Me, coming to college an innocent, naive Virgin (planning to save it until marriage)Goes to frat party sober with a new sorority sister & meets a sober older brother.He asked for my number & we started texting & became friends.He was looking at new PCs so he asked if I’d show him mine […]

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You Can Do It!

Dear beautiful souls,   Whatever you are struggling with in this current moment, you can do it. I believe in you. I believe in your talents, abilities, you as a whole with my entire heart and soul. You will do amazing things and accomplish all of your goals no matter how large. All you have to […]

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Poetry For those Who Need Hope

I had to leave.  Because holding you knowing that you allowed someone else to explore you the way I did.  The way that I was so certain only I was going to know for the rest of our existence. I thought I was going to be the last soul you let feel yours like that.  […]

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Feeling lonely from isolation?

Here’s a new perspective on the state of the world during the Corona Virus: The Universe decided to give us all time to take a break, self-reflect, heal, and grow. The Universe knew that we were just going through the motions of life unable to stop and take the time truly needed to prosper. To […]

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you are the magic

You are the magic. You are that little sunlight peaking into the crack in your broken pieces. You can heal your tired and sore bones. You can be your own saving grace. Your own beautiful soul. You have the power and the ability, even if it is buried deep inside and you can’t readily see […]

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