You Glow Different

You glow different when you’re happy and healthy but that doesn’t mean your partner was the sole problem in your unhealthy relationship. A relationship is made or broken by two people, I don’t agree just because you glow after  breakup you weren’t a problem. Maybe no actually probably you weren’t the main problem but both […]

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Traumas

Traumas are very real and very powerful. The imprint traumatic experiences leave on a person’s life will vary and is unique. Different people process different negative or tragic events that will occur to them throughout their life at different speeds and in varying degrees of intensity. You, and you alone, internally are the healer and […]

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What I want In My Future Relationship

I want a best friend that we share a lot of things in common and share a love of music. I, also, want us to be able to go and do our own things as well. I don’t want to be glued together 24/7, I want each of us to have time with our friends. […]

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Sometimes It is Better To Not Know

I love knowledge. I get a thrill from grasping and mastering different areas of studies. I, always, would think to myself that the more you know the better. It is better to know, instead of being left in the dark. Ignorance couldn’t ever be bliss! Or could it?  Sometimes, I think, you need to leave […]

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A Huge Red Flag

They tell you that they’ve cheated in multiple past relationships. Yes, honesty is a beautiful thing and it’s wonderful that they trust you and feel comfortable enough to disclose their less than savory qualities. BUT old habits don’t just POOF disappear, they die a slow, painful, dragged out death, if they die a death at […]

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maybe ex’s aren’t crazy

The ex is not really crazy. They are honestly the ones to feel bad for. In a relationship when one of the partners cheats and then either ends the relationship or the other party ends it due to the lack of trust remaining. The ex is the one that did not betray the simpliest principle […]

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Poetry I Wrote Immediately After my Heartbreak

He placed a napkin over my chest  right over the spot that contained my heart He then proceeded to raise his leg and stamped down as hard as possible He crushed my heart  And the worst part was he left the fragments scattered around the bare floor He made sure that he did not leave […]

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The Dangers of Potential

It is extremely dangerous to fall in love with someone’s potential. The main reason is you’re in love with an idea, not the person that you are with. That person may grow into that potential that you have focused in on so intently. The flip side and the more likely result is the person does […]

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A Few Thoughts on Cheating

Cheating is never excusable or justifiable. Unless in the case that you find yourself trapped in a Jigsaw game where the terms to your freedom was having to cheat on your significant other. If I had to describe cheating in only one word it would be selfish. When you cheat you make it clear that […]

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