Traumas

Traumas are very real and very powerful. The imprint traumatic experiences leave on a person’s life will vary and is unique. Different people process different negative or tragic events that will occur to them throughout their life at different speeds and in varying degrees of intensity. You, and you alone, internally are the healer and […]

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The Start of Establishing and Enforcing Boundaries

I’ve always been like people’s stepping stool or doormat. I’m too nice so people think “wow it’d be so easy to just take advantage of her.” Instead of appreciating my kindness they want to take it a step farther and just try to manipulate me. I’ve had so many people that I just allowed to […]

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Late Night Thoughts

Some events in life will not click. Not everything is might to fit together like the perfect puzzle pieces. Sometimes you have to accept the fact that you’re left in a place where you will never have any of your whys or what ifs or was it because answered. Life does not always present you […]

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Sometimes It is Better To Not Know

I love knowledge. I get a thrill from grasping and mastering different areas of studies. I, always, would think to myself that the more you know the better. It is better to know, instead of being left in the dark. Ignorance couldn’t ever be bliss! Or could it?  Sometimes, I think, you need to leave […]

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The Truth Hurts but It’ll Set You Free

Truth hurts. The truth is the acid that slowly disintegrates the fantasy that you’ve so long hid yourself within. The truth is not pretty. Once that fantasy is completely dissolved, reality will be revealed and it will burn. It will sting. It will cause an excruciating pain that you could have easily avoided by continuing […]

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Poetry For those Who Need Hope

I had to leave.  Because holding you knowing that you allowed someone else to explore you the way I did.  The way that I was so certain only I was going to know for the rest of our existence. I thought I was going to be the last soul you let feel yours like that.  […]

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maybe ex’s aren’t crazy

The ex is not really crazy. They are honestly the ones to feel bad for. In a relationship when one of the partners cheats and then either ends the relationship or the other party ends it due to the lack of trust remaining. The ex is the one that did not betray the simpliest principle […]

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denial

Denial is healings worst enemy. You need to accept a situation, accept your wounds, accept that you have been hurt, and accept how that hurt made you feel. You cannot begin your journey of healing without accepting the fact that you have been hurt and that the damaging situation happened. You need to accept life […]

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