Traumas

Traumas are very real and very powerful. The imprint traumatic experiences leave on a person’s life will vary and is unique. Different people process different negative or tragic events that will occur to them throughout their life at different speeds and in varying degrees of intensity. You, and you alone, internally are the healer and […]

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The Start of Establishing and Enforcing Boundaries

I’ve always been like people’s stepping stool or doormat. I’m too nice so people think “wow it’d be so easy to just take advantage of her.” Instead of appreciating my kindness they want to take it a step farther and just try to manipulate me. I’ve had so many people that I just allowed to […]

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My story: why/ how I lost my virginity

Video transcript: Me, coming to college an innocent, naive Virgin (planning to save it until marriage)Goes to frat party sober with a new sorority sister & meets a sober older brother.He asked for my number & we started texting & became friends.He was looking at new PCs so he asked if I’d show him mine […]

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What I want In My Future Relationship

I want a best friend that we share a lot of things in common and share a love of music. I, also, want us to be able to go and do our own things as well. I don’t want to be glued together 24/7, I want each of us to have time with our friends. […]

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Living Your Life Positively

Living a positive life and dedicating yourself to a positive mindset is the life philosophy that helped me heal through many of my traumas. I have trained myself to stop dwelling on what could go wrong and the negatives attached to situations and to instead think of what could go right and focus on trying […]

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Late Night Thoughts

Some events in life will not click. Not everything is might to fit together like the perfect puzzle pieces. Sometimes you have to accept the fact that you’re left in a place where you will never have any of your whys or what ifs or was it because answered. Life does not always present you […]

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Introduction into my Views on Kindness

Let me ask you a quick question please. When someone looks at you for the first time, would you rather them to focus on your positive or negative characteristics? Would you want them to develop a good or bad impression of who you are as a person? No one likes when people look down upon […]

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Sometimes It is Better To Not Know

I love knowledge. I get a thrill from grasping and mastering different areas of studies. I, always, would think to myself that the more you know the better. It is better to know, instead of being left in the dark. Ignorance couldn’t ever be bliss! Or could it?  Sometimes, I think, you need to leave […]

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You Can Do It!

Dear beautiful souls,   Whatever you are struggling with in this current moment, you can do it. I believe in you. I believe in your talents, abilities, you as a whole with my entire heart and soul. You will do amazing things and accomplish all of your goals no matter how large. All you have to […]

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The Truth Hurts but It’ll Set You Free

Truth hurts. The truth is the acid that slowly disintegrates the fantasy that you’ve so long hid yourself within. The truth is not pretty. Once that fantasy is completely dissolved, reality will be revealed and it will burn. It will sting. It will cause an excruciating pain that you could have easily avoided by continuing […]

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